my life

first off let me tell you a little about me and then I will jump into my soap opera of a life! I am a wife of ten years and a mother to four children. I have two from my my husband and then I have two step children which creates a drama in its self " especially when the mother of the two is a dumb self absorbed twit "! I am 30 years old with my oldest children being 13 and 12 both are my step children my kiddos are 9 and 6. I am very much in-love with my wonderful husband "and he is wonderful"! I will will eventually spill my guts about all the drama i have been through but I'm gonna start with just today!

Today is my step sons birthday. In previous years his mother has failed to even call him, this year my step daughter called to remind her and make sure that she would call him. She said to her mom "Do you just want me to tell him happy birthday for you?" is that not just pathetic? I mean what mother needs to be reminded of their childs' birthday.
I did for get to mention that she kicked him out of her house when he was 2, "2 can you believe that shit, stupid bitch" She even told him " you have to go stay with your dad now because you cant be good. when you learn how to listen and be good maybe you can come home." Is that not a bunch of crap? well anyway back to today I planed pizza and cupcakes for his birthday untill next weekend when we take him to a water park. His mom did call and asked if she could take him to dinner, he told her no. He said, " My mom has dinner for us and cupcakes." so she said what about tomorrow he said " no, my dad will be home then". She finally found something he would say yes too, she asked him to go fishing after dinner with me, he agreed to go.
Oh wait I forgot to mention that I take care of them their dad is a truck driver that is only home on the weekends. I have also raised tyler my step son since he was two when she kicked him out. My husband has been a truck driver the whole time.
back to the story, lol. She came and picked him and his sister up and took them fishing, a plus for her! I think it is great that she actually tried to show interest. What I hate is how the kids can be with her for four hours and come home acting like they hate everyone, with such attitudes that they act completely disrespectful to me and their brother and sister as well as fight with each other. I mean what the hell does she do to them to make them that way? I strongly feel that she is a bad influience on them and needs to grow up her self. I swear one of these days i am gonna beat her! not trying to be childish but man if any deserves it its her. I have bit my tounge for ten years of her being a horrible mother to these kids I honestly do not know how much longer I can take it. Oh and this is just the tip of the iceberg just wait till my next blog. I have so much crap I need to spill my guts on and most of it should be the plot to another daytime soap!